So I hear a lot of guys saying that they can get numbers but they don't lead anywhere. Think about it, if you sit with a girl for 30 minutes and talk about politics or the magazine she is reading, you can't expect her to want to go on a date with you. You have to send her the message that you are interested in her sexually or for a potential relationship and make yourself worth the date. Here is my format for getting a solid number.
1. Frame
2. Qualify
3. Show Intent
4. Close (get contact info)
Another point. If you think of getting a number as an actual thing or an accomplishment, you are in the wrong mindset. A number is only a gateway to further contact with the woman.
Frame - setting the overall situation as a relationship potential or a sexual vibe
Qualify - see if the girl is right for you and if she fits into either a relationship potential or potential sex partner
Show Intent - let the girl know you want to take action on the frame you have set. This is mostly done non-verbally or through innuendo
Close - this is the easiest part. You simply ask for her phone number.
So get out there and get some solid numbers. Hope you guys do well. If you have any questions, feel free to contact me.
Sincerely,
BlueHaze
