So exactly, what does it mean to be you?
That's a big question to take on, but let's do it.
Fundamentally, knowing who you are is what get's you results with women.
If you were to have two guys side-by-side, one of them more in touch with himself and one far removed from himself, there would be a large difference.
Particularly, a guy who knows himself well, will be dressed in a way that matches his personality and emphasizes his personality. His body language and demeanor would be congruent with himself and he would be able to connect with you on a good level of familiarity. What's more is that you will be able to feel his energy and it would be acceptable to you because he is presenting it in a way that has integrity.
On the other hand, the guy that is not in touch with himself will be quite different. His clothing will seem out of place, and incongruent with the vibe he is giving off. His behavior and demeanor will seem odd and not match what he is trying to portray to you. You will end up feeling awkward or turned off because of too many inconsistencies in the interaction with him. Body language, eye-contact, and tone will not match.
So what exactly is going on here? They are both men and came from DNA that combined when their parents united. They were both born blank slates and had the same entrance into this world.
Here is where the mysterious question lies. Many men have spent years trying to understand why THEY aren't being chased by women. They try to memorize lines, buy dress clothes, cars, get better jobs, impress women, boast about themselves, and anything else they can think of. It ends up making of fool of them.
IF you really want a woman chasing you, you will need to start with only one thing. That is self discovery. Knowing yourself is the starting point and foundation on which you build everything else you will need to be an attractive person.
Whatever that may take. It could be meditation, backing Europe, giving away all your possessions, reading 100 books, or simply writing out your life goals on a daily basis. It's a journey and continuously opens up as you go further. Take the time and you will advance your self-awareness.
