When to Text or Call?

Whats up?

I just went out and had a really good night last night. What is interesting is that I have been escalating much faster lately and have been getting some good results from it.

What I found is that I just have to have some finesse while doing it and also have fun.

So the main point here is that there is no real time frame of when to text or call a girl. Getting a number, texting, and calling are all just necessary modes of communication that convey your main MESSAGE and INTENT that you are trying to get across. If you think about them as actual things, then you are in the wrong frame of thinking.

Phone, facebook, mail, or whatever. It is all just a means of getting a message to someone else. So if your message requires you sending a text or call to a girl within 5 minutes of getting her number then that is okay. Forget all the "rules" made up by some pua guy. There are no rules or exact times to wait before texting. Just get your message and know what you want.

Talk to you Guys soon,

BlueHaze

Be Yourself?

Exposing your personality to women turns them on just like  them exposing their bodies turns men on.  

Intent of an Approach Interaction

I've really been working on my approaching skills lately and realized something important.

Intent.

(check my post from May 1st for the meaning of intent)

I have talked a little bit about intent in my previous posts but it was intent regarding your overall purpose. For example, your intent may be to get laid. So you go out with that intent and have that as your driving force while you are approaching women.

But I realized a distinction. If you use just that form of intent, it will be difficult to get from meet to sex. I realized that there must be an 'intent' solely for the approach and the interaction before getting the phone number.

For example, my approach intent could be that I want to have fun and have an interesting conversation while also screening for other things like sexual openness and open-mindedness. This is my approach intent. While my comfort/seduction phase intent is to get laid.

I was seeing it all as one intent however, it is divided up into two stages. Intent of approach and intent of comfort/seduction.

I want to elaborate more on this idea soon. If you have any questions, just drop me a message.

Thanks,

BlueHaze

My Top 5 PUA's

1. El Topo
2. Jason Savage
3. Terrence C
4. Tyler W
5. Nick Rogue

Notable Mention: Captain Jack

1. El Topo is number one on my list since he was my mentor when I started in the community. His comfort and seduction game are unstoppable and pretty much lethal. Rapid escalation and identity are the two main things I learned from him. He also promotes self-exploration and being yourself. I truly believe that he gave me the best starting point to build on.

2. Jason Savage is definitely a philosopher of seduction and knows exactly how to word concepts so that they penetrate your mind. He only has a blog and 2 videos that I have been able to find on the internet but they had such an impact on me that my game was shaped by his material. Basically, I have learned more about the core philosophy of seduction by reading his material.

3. Terrence C is a personal friend of mine and he truly knows how to discuss seduction in a way that changes your mindset. He breaks down ideas clearly and allows you to understand them and prevent you from going through the headache of having to learn them on your own through trial and error. His style is very normal.

4. Tyler W bases his game on visualization and hypnosis. I've found his method very powerful and effective for preparation before going out. While other guys practice infield, Tyler W visualizes at home and ends up getting much better results than guys that practice infield. The reason is that visualization allows you to get a positive outcome in your mind every time. His method has helped me tremendously in removing the mental roadblocks that I have had.

5. Nick Rogue is all about rapid escalation and I haven't seen anyone else that specializes in that as much as he does. I respect his game because he gets straight to the point and finds all the short cuts to get their. Very cool material that allows you to get a women in bed as fast as possible.

Notable Mention: Captain Jack is a notable mention on my list and would probably be near the top if he actually had any material on the internet. However, I have found almost nothing. The reason I like Captain Jack is because of his idea of Frames. Frames are so powerful and he definitely will be one of my top PUAs due to this. He is also know for Same Night Lays. Very powerful stuff.

So that is my list of top PUAs. I hope you enjoyed.

BlueHaze