Dates: Masculinity as the Base for Sexual Escalation

In the past few months, I've gone on more than 20 dates. I've learned a lot about sexual escalation in the process. Touching, eye-contact, teasing, baiting, push-pull, kissing, rapport, sexual tension, texting, etc. I'm going to condense this down to simple concepts:

1. Make her feel comfortable
2. Be masculine
3. Rapport
4. Show her you are a sexual being
5. Follow through physically

There are more intricacies to this representation that I am presenting but this is a general idea of what I do on dates. At this moment, I'm going to focus on what it is to be masculine. I did a short study on masculinity / femininity and learned something very important. This is a good quote that can explain the main idea:

"The female energy is the energy of Home. It is the energy of the Primal Source, the flowing Light, pure Being. It is the energy that has not yet manifested, the inner aspect of things. The female energy is all encompassing and oceanic; it does not differentiate or individualize.

Now, imagine the energy of the female becoming aware of a certain movement inside of her, a slight restlessness, a desire for… reaching out, outside of her boundaries, moving outside of herself to attain experience. There is a longing for something new, for adventure! And then an energy comes to her that answers that longing. It is the male energy that wants to be of service and help her manifest in matter, in form. The male energy defines and shapes the female energy and by their cooperation the total sum of energies can take a completely new direction. A new reality can be created in which everything can be explored and experienced, in ever changing forms of manifestation."

- Pamela Kribbe

 This quote basically means that you, as the man, are the shaper and director of the feminine energy. Too many times on a date, the male provides the feminine energy of anticipation, anxiousness, and indecision. This leaves the woman to provide the masculine energy. I don't believe a woman is going to feel turned on or sexy if she has to provide the masculine energy in the interaction.

On dates, you have to be the man. That means choose the venue and bounce her to different venues when you decide.However, I have noticed that you don't have to pay for the dates or even spend money at all. That is apart from the masculine energy in my opinion.

Be MASCULINE throughout the entire date and any interactions you have with the woman.

Along with masculinity, you have to get sexual at the same time. I will leave that for another post.

Thanks for reading and we will talk again soon.

BlueHaze