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Sunday, July 19, 2015

Do Looks Really Matter?

The majority of guys wonder this. Does how you look affect whether a girl will like you?

It's not a simple answer. Just to preface this, the way women think is usually more complex on this topic. For men it is usually an on-or-off switch.

Think of it this way:

Both men and women have a tipping point (think of it as a balance with negatives and positives on opposing sides).

When a man looks at a woman, her physical attractiveness will usually tip the scale over the majority of the time without any other factors, such as how interesting she is, her income level, her social abilities, etc.

For women, a man's looks don't really tip the scale so much. Women take into account many more factors than men do. They look at all the things they are wanting from the relationship: protection, social skills, financial, looks, attitude, approval of other women. 

The main answer is that looks don't weigh as much on the scale as they do for men when it comes to choosing a partner. 

Looks are vague anyway. One woman may feel uncomfortable having a man that is very attractive, while another woman might really enjoy having a man that is classically attractive. 

Overall, you should care about your appearance as a man. You should dress with style, groom yourself properly, and just take pride in who you are. It is always a plus to women.

Looks matter to a lesser degree for men than women. 

The problem is that men are more primitive when it comes to attraction. We only mainly see physical appearance. While women are more advanced in their attraction mechanism.

In order to really understand women, you have to see from their viewpoint. If you think women judge men mainly on physical hottness, then you are seeing it through the eyes of a male. Look through the eyes of a woman, and it makes a lot more sense.

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